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User:pushmearound (1821664)
I reject your reality .....
and substitute it with my own
Name:Jaime
Location:Lexington, Kentucky, United States
Birthdate:1977-07-10
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Bio:I'm a fairly simple girl.

First and foremost, I am a wife and mother. My family is the most important thing to me, they are the reason I live and breathe. I married the man I always dreamed about [info]mairondil but didn't believe I'd ever find on May 26, 2007. After many failed attempts in the romance department, I believe I've found my keeper, my soul mate, my best friend, the smartest man I know. I can easily say that he is the best thing that ever happened to me, and I appreciate a great deal of things about him, including his wit, his charm, his kindness, his parenting skills, and most importantly, his ability to be honest.

I have 3 children - his, mine, ours. Connor is 9 years old and is my perfect little man (for the most part). He has my warped sense of humor, a ready smile, and unfortunately my stubborn streak. But stubborn is good right? That's what I keep telling myself. He continually surprises me with his intelligence. He is my first born and yet my baby boy and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't count my blessings to have such a good kid. He loves his little sister and begs to hold and feed her, and if she's fussing he'll pick her up and attempt to bounce her. With their huge age difference, I was worried about him connecting with her, but after a couple of weeks of uncertainty it was like they'd reached a bond overnight. You'll find him most of the time swinging her in her swing or sitting next to her on the couch telling me everything she's doing like it's the funniest thing on earth. He's my baby commentator.

Avery was born on September 22, 2007. She is my shining, happy beautiful baby girl. Even though we planned her and tried for her for months, I was still shocked when I found out I was pregnant. I guess after 7 years I was never really certain that I would be blessed with another baby. It took finding the right person to have the baby with. Her favorite things to do now, at 10 months, is crawling around with her tongue hanging out like a puppy, her ball and her brother and siser. She loves her baths and will get so excited and splash around like crazy. She's a very pampered baby, we are her minions and answer to her every whim, it isn't often that she gets into a full-fledged cry, she doesn't have to.



(she never learned to use a pacifier the "right" way, not that I really care.}



I'm 31 years old and a full-time mom and wife and a very part-time ChaCha guide. I practice attachment parenting, for the most part. I was a co-sleeping, snugli wearing, breast feeding mama, but after a while she rejected all those things...lol. I would like to be a cloth-diapering mama, but I already do 3 loads of laundry a day and so I just don't have the energy right now. I don't judge you if you are none of the above. I wasn't any of the above with my first child. Things change, people change. I'm a Christian (Catholic), or I try my best to be anyway. I attend church regularly.

I'm not a Nazi about anything, everyone has a different parenting style and I respect that. In return, I ask you not lecture me on any of mine.

I have a good sense of humor and sometimes I sincerely lack political correctness. I can be pretty snarky and sarcastic. I don't mince my opinion, but only if you ask me for it. I swear alot. God doesn't care. Nowhere in the bible does it say "thou shalt not say shit". Society has made words bad, and really screw society.

I love my friends, the ones who have proven true to me, and I love to make new friends, especially mommy's (whatever your views). I'm not political. I'm not judgmental. I don't care what color, race or religion you are. I'm an equal opportunity friender.

I abuse the hell out of commas. It is my grammatical downfall.

I'm entirely different person than I was a year ago, but the good parts stuck around. A lot of people try/have tried to "tear me down" but really I just want to thank them. They've made me a better person, I'm infinitely more patient, more understanding, more empathetic, and more tolerant. I wish I'd learned a long time ago to let things just roll off my back the way I do now, and to understand the motivation behind other's bad behavior, that it's their own personal emotions and downfalls that make them behave that way and not mine. It would have saved me a lot of heartache in the past.

So thanks.

This journal will have a lot of picture posts and a lot of posts about my children and my family. If that doesn't interest you, please move on. I comment when I can...I have a newborn and she takes up a lot of my time. I'm very guilty of not answering comments made to me. Sorry.









Love
Your name
Your partner
You two areOne
Your meeting was byFate
He/She is yourProtector
You are his/herTrue love
Your love willBe the epitome of what true love is









Six weeks



Three months



Half a year and counting...













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My beautiful family, in part.










Our beautiful Avery Brynn, Queen of All. 9/22/07










Memories:7 entries
Interests:125: animal lover, art, autumn, avery, babies, baking, barenaked ladies, barnes and noble, billiards, bowling, candles, canning food, cars, cats, celtic, children, chocolate, cities, clerks, coffee, college, coloring outside the lines, connor, cooking, cruising, cuddling, decorating, design, desire, diversity, dogs, downtown, dreams, driving, earth, entertaining, eyes, family, family guy, fish, flowers, food, forensics, friends, fun, gaelic, gardening, going back to basics, harry potter, herbs, hiking, history, home, home improvement, homesteading, hugs, incense, intelligence, intensity, internet, irish, joseph beth, journaling, karma, kentucky, kevin smith, kids, kissing, knitting, lexington, life, lightning, local bands, love, macabre, making candles, matchbox20, meditation, midwest, moon, music, natural, nature, new england, new hampshire, night, ocean, open minds, outdoors, paranormal, pets, photography, poetry, pregnancy, rain, reading, religion, road trips, romance, sahm, scrapbooking, sewing, silk, silver, simplicity, south, southern, steam, storms, sullivan university, sun, tcz, tolerance, touching, travel, trying new things, video games, vintage, walking, water, weddings, wine, women's studies, writing, zen..
Schools:James A. Cawood High School - Harlan, KY
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